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		<description><![CDATA[crossposted at the bougie baller. Thanks Leah &#38; Andi! Hey kids! The Bougie Baller shared her wisdom on dressing your best while keeping your finances in check. I’ve seen faaar too many chicas with great shoes, fly ‘fits and terrible&#8211; I mean horrendous makeup. But polishing your look doesn’t mean you have to blow your [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>crossposted at <a href="http://bougieballing.blogspot.com/2008/12/make-me-over.html" target="_blank">the bougie baller</a>. Thanks Leah &amp; Andi!</em></p>
<p>Hey kids!</p>
<p>The <a href="http://bougieballing.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Bougie Baller</a> shared her wisdom on dressing your best while keeping your finances in check. I’ve seen faaar too many chicas with great shoes, fly ‘fits and terrible&#8211; I mean <em>horrendous</em> makeup. But polishing your look doesn’t mean you have to blow your budget.</p>
<p>Recession? Depression? No problem. Your portfolio may have taken a hit, but you don’t have to look like the economy slapped your face. If you are looking for simple daytime makeup, full on black tie glamor, or a look for standing in a breadline&#8211; don’t worry. Let’s explore how ballers on a budget get glammed up without paying department store cosmetics prices.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">I.    Big Events : Seek Smart Professional Help</span><br />
For big events such as black tie affairs, professional photographs, being honored at an awards dinner, prom, etc.; budget ballers seek professional help.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://sassywomenonline.com/images/makeup" alt="" width="273" height="205" /><span id="more-139"></span></p>
<p>Yes, yes, you may wonder how a makeup artist will save you dough. It sounds luxurious. It can be. But don’t sleep:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">**student estheticians </span></p>
<p>For makeup, hair and skin, students work wonders at a fraction of the cost. I’m talking hair cuts, color, facials, peels, microdermabrasion….the list goes on. And because their grades depend on how well they help you, they may just care more than a random stylist. Don’t worry, teacher/overseers won’t let you leave looking crazy. Make sure you book in advance, and allow plenty of time in case there is a wait the day of your service. That said, pack your patience.</p>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;">Bonus: top notch style at a fraction of the cost.</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> Where to find them:  try <a href="http://www.avedainstitutechicago.com/services.html">Aveda Institutes</a> in your area.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">**The Makeup counter</span></p>
<p>Department stores are great places to have <span style="font-weight: bold;">full makeup</span> done for free, or for a nominal fee. You’ll likely pay $50 with the ability to redeem the cost in product! Hiring a pro makeup artist starts at $100, plus an hourly fee. On top of that you WON’T get the ability to redeem the cost in product with a hired artist. So for your next big event, professional photograph that will last a lifetime- why not trust your face to a pro? Many artists at the counter see and work with all types of people every day. As a result, they are some of the most versatile and talented artists.</p>
<p>Tips:</p>
<ul>
<li>Call a couple of days ahead to schedule an appointment.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Communication is important. A good artist will have a chat with you before getting started. When you go, walk in ready to explain to the artist why you are there. If it is for a photograph, let it be known! Your artist will customize your look for black and white photography, color photography, etc.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>If you don’t exactly know what you want, take a few magazine clippings of looks you find attractive.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Use your time wisely. Ask questions and pick up tips while you’re in the chair. It’s your time, so find out how the artist achieves your look so that you can re-create it later! (then practice practice practice the next day)</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Shower before you go and wear a button down shirt. This helps prevent wardrobe change accidents. Pulling a shirt over your head can be fatal.</li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;">Bonus: A fabulous face without the worry. Makeup customized for your event, at a fraction of the cost for a personal make up artist. A small fee, redeemable in product.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">II.    Every day: do- it- yourself (and do it well)</span></p>
<p>Most days and weekends you’re not going to go to the makeup counter. If you’re like me, you aren’t even inclined to wear makeup daily. Okay. That’s fine. But you can still look just as good doing your own makeup without spending unnecessary amounts of money on products from department stores.</p>
<p>The premise is simple: save money by eliminating excess.</p>
<p>How? Do your homework, make products work for you by pulling double duty, practice proper technique, and when all else fails: fake it ‘till you make it.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">1.    DO YOUR HOMEWORK</span><br />
<span style="font-style: italic;">Before you spend one dime- do a <span style="font-weight: bold;">self- assessment</span>.</span></p>
<p>I believe it when people say makeup doesn’t give you anything you don’t already have. It just enhances what you do have. With that in mind, what would you like to enhance? Love your eyes and want to bring them out more? Love your bone structure? Your Lips? Figure out what you’d like to highlight. This will tell you what your essential products are. Make these the basics for a great look- and add other features from there for fun.</p>
<p>For example, if I want to highlight my eyes this season, I don’t necessarily need to purchase a new, trendy lipstick color. I’ll take that attitude with me to the store, so I wont be tempted to purchase something I don’t need.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">What are your essential products?</span> Decide for yourself what you need the most.<br />
Lips: seek a great lip liner, and gloss and/or lipstick.<br />
Bone structure: highlighter / bronzer / blush.<br />
Eyes:  mascara, liner.<br />
Skin: moisturizer, foundation, concealer.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">What are you willing to compromise?</span><br />
Some people can live with drug store mascara. Some people can live with drug store moisturizer. Bargain with yourself.</p>
<p>I personally think <a href="http://www.maybelline.com/product/eye/mascara.aspx">Maybelline</a> mascara works just as well as any department store brand I’ve tried. But you’ll have to pry my <a href="http://www.cremedelamer.com/index.tmpl?ngextredir=1">LaMer </a>moisturizer out of my cold, dead hands!<br />
It’s not a fault- it’s a preference, honey. What’s yours?</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Get samples!</span><br />
Cosmetic counters and stores give samples! And they give enough samples to live off of sometimes. My travel mascaras are samples. Want to try a new foundation? Ask for samples first! Try it out in daylight, at home, during the day, at night—really test drive it. Don’t drop $ on foundation that doesn’t work for you outside of the store.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">2.    DOUBLE DUTY</span><br />
The most aggressive approach you can take to cutting costs is to choose products that pull ‘double duty’. That means each product is great for multiple purposes, so you don’t have to purchase so many items. A few suggestions follow, but you can certainly get creative with this concept.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">A)    Pigments</span> <span style="font-weight: bold;">– The hardest working product in the biz</span><br />
<a href="http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15114&amp;PRODUCT_ID=PROD1519">MAC</a> and <a href="http://www.lorealparisusa.com/eyeshadow/hip-high-intensity-pigments-pure-pigment-shadow-stick.htm">Loreal HIP</a> make excellent pigments! However, HIP is about ½ the price of MAC.</p>
<p>Pigments are sold as vials of powdered color and can be used <span style="font-weight: bold;">anywhere on the face, décolleté, cheeks, eyes, lips, nails and hair. They can be used as a blush, contour, highlight, to enhance, whatever you want &#8211; anything, anywhere</span>. But, make sure you read the packaging because different colors are not appropriate for use on eyes, or lips.</p>
<p>To pull double (or more) duty with pigments, use them dry for blush, or for eye color you can place them on top of a cream eyeshadow base. If you’d like to use them alone for eye color just add them to a mixing medium such as saline solution *the stuff for your contact lenses*, and use as a paint. Press them into wet clear nail polish for a change of nail color.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">B)    Makeup Primer</span><br />
Makeup primer is a great way to help foundation stay put all day, and it really smooths out the skin before application.  I love<a href="http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P88003&amp;cm_mmc=us_search-_-GoogleBase-_-P88003-_-801225&amp;_requestid=42976&amp;ci_src=14110944&amp;ci_sku=801225"> Smashbox Photofinish</a>. But it is not exactly the easiest on my wallet. That’s where <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Monistat-Soothing-Powder-Gel-1-5-Ounce-Containers/dp/B001E96MG2/ref=pd_sim_hpc_2">Anti-Chafing Gel</a> comes in.  Both products are <span style="font-weight: bold;">dimethicone</span> based and have nearly the same ingredients.  But the anti-chafing gel costs 75% less!!</p>
<p>The downside is that the maker is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Monistat-Soothing-Powder-Gel-1-5-Ounce-Containers/dp/B001E96MG2/ref=pd_sim_hpc_2">Monistat</a>, which may make some people believe it is for ‘personal’ use. However, the product is meant to be used between knees and thighs for those who chafe there, for example: runners.<br />
<span style="font-style: italic;">Bonus: 75% savings for the same product; easy to purchase at any drugstore; regularly goes on sale bogo.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">C)    Foundation/Moisturizer  = Tinted Moisturizer</span><br />
Why buy foundation, tinted moisturizer and moisturizer?<br />
On a normal weekday you may not like to wear foundation. Especially if you just don’t need that much coverage. So why not purchase foundation, and blend with your moisturizer to make tinted moisturizer? You’ll save the cost of buying an extra product, and you can customize the blend to get the exact amount of coverage you need at the time.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">D)    Natural Oils</span><br />
Coconut and grapeseed oil are two of the most useful tools in your arsenal. They both do so much!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.organicfacts.net/organic-oils/organic-coconut-oil/health-benefits-of-coconut-oil.html">Unrefined Coconut oil</a> (found in the grocery store!) can be used for Cooking your food. It’s been shown to raise metabolism (hello skinny jeans), and fight heart disease. But did you also know it’s one of the best hair conditioners around? That’s because it is one of the few oils that can actually penetrate the hair shaft and not just sit on top. Try it as a pre-shampoo treatment. Let it sit on your hair for an hour before shampooing and enjoy the difference.<br />
Coconut oil is also great for <a href="http://www.coconut-connections.com/skin_care.htm">dry skin</a>.   Apply directly, or add to a warm bath.</p>
<p>Grapeseed oil can be used to remove makeup, without harsh chemicals. To use as a remover, simply massage your face with grapeseed oil before washing as usual. Easy!</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">E)    Tend Skin</span><br />
It’s getting cold outside, and unless you’re fortunate enough to be beach bound, you’ve probably put those bikinis in winter storage—and the <a href="http://www.tendskin.com/index.htm">Tend Skin</a> along with them.  <a href="http://www.tendskin.com/index.htm">Tend Skin</a> is the razor-bump solution with a cult-like following. It’s just that good. But good doesn’t come cheap. So what else can it be used for?</p>
<p>According to Estheticians at <a href="http://www.georgetteklinger.com/">Georgette Klinger</a>, guys and girls can use Tend Skin as a great facial toner. Now you can cross Toner off your list of things to buy. Simply swipe Tend Skin on with a cotton ball. Follow up with a good moisturizer.</p>
<p>Now, if you want to save even more, you can make your own with this easy recipe. Just make sure to shake it up before each use.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">solution 1:</span><br />
18 tablets uncoated aspirin, crushed<br />
5 oz. rubbing alcohol<br />
combine.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">solution 2:</span><br />
8 tablets uncoated aspirin, crushed<br />
2.5 oz. witch hazel<br />
combine.</p>
<p>Combine the two solutions. the aspirin will settle a bit, so shake it before use. It can also be used to spot treat blemishes. (aspirin is acetic and salicylic acids.)</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">3.    TECHNIQUE IS EVERYTHING</span></p>
<p>Makeup application technique is important. It will save you product over the long run, which saves you money. Less product is necessary when it is applied properly. Also, it will look better if it is applied as intended, so you’ll be less inclined to run out searching for something ‘better’.</p>
<p>Ways to improve your technique:</p>
<ul>
<li>Watch <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/scandalousbeauty?ob=1">youtube tutorials</a>.  There are a TON of them.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Practice.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Take advice from people you admire.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Ask questions of professionals when you have the chance (like when you’re at the counter)</li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;">Bonus: Stay organized to prevent double purchases</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">4.    FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT</span><br />
<span style="font-style: italic;">Tool Time</span><br />
Tools are very important for getting the look you want, but are an investment. Makeup brushes can easily cost $40 each. But Bougie Ballers know to shop in the local craft store for <span style="font-weight: bold;">artists brushes</span> at a fraction of the cost.  Pro makeup artists love <a href="http://www.loew-cornell.com/products/index/2/index.html">LOEW-CORNELL brushes</a> from Michael’s craft store.  Budget fashionistas also rave about the <a href="http://www.target.com/Sonia-Kashuk-Design/b?ie=UTF8&amp;node=1084124">Sonia Kashuk line</a> from Target.</p>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;">Curl Power</span><br />
Invest in good eyelash curler. It will save you from using so much mascara, and as a one time purchase, It’s a wise choice.</p>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;">Clean Slate</span></p>
<p>Makeup removing wipes are convenient on the run or at work, when you don’t have time to break out the coconut or grapeseed oil. But at around $25 for 100 sheets, they must contain the tears of babies born on February 29th.</p>
<p>Speaking of babies, you can use<span style="font-weight: bold;"> baby wipes</span> to remove makeup for about $4 for 77 sheets.  And they work <span style="font-style: italic;">just as well.</span> Really.</p>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;">Color Combos</span><br />
Last suggestion for today is that you can always fake an expensive color combination. Rich color combinations are key. Bronze and gold is hitting the runways hard this season. Interpret the trend without going overboard by using a light hand, and the proper tools.</p>
<p>Check out makeup pallets designers release for color combination ideas. They typically coincide with current runway trends. Then head to the nearest drugstore and re-create the look for less. Want to know which drugstore color is equivalent to your favorite designer hue? Print <a href="http://aspoonofsugar.blogspot.com/2008/11/nordstroms-girl-in-drugstore-world.html"><span style="font-weight: bold;">this list</span></a> to take with you.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Now get out there and look great this holiday season! </span> <span style="font-weight: bold;">Enjoy!</span><br />
<span style="font-weight: bold;"> Andi</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Black Republicans are extremely unpopular this election season since Barack Obama may be the first African American president.  If he wins the White House, it would be a momentous occasion in American politics.   Regardless of who becomes president in November, this campaign presents a troubling paradox.  Some want to misrepresent the election as a black [...]]]></description>
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<p>Black Republicans are extremely unpopular this election season since Barack Obama may be the first African American president.  If he wins the White House, it would be a momentous occasion in American politics.   Regardless of who becomes president in November, this campaign presents a troubling paradox.  Some want to misrepresent the election as a black and white picture that all open-minded tolerate individuals will vote for Obama and the rich and white are behind John McCain.</p>
<p>Many African Americans say that every black voter should support Obama because he is black. White Democrats should vote for him despite that he is black.</p>
<p>At the same time, for centuries we have fought for equal treatment in this country.  We want to be looked at, as Martin Luther King Jr. describes, by the “content of our character”.</p>
<p>However, black supporters of John McCain are attacked and labeled as race traitors and Uncle Toms.  Is it only acceptable to ask society to be colorblind as long as it is in favor of liberal views?<span id="more-109"></span></p>
<p>I, along with other black conservatives, am proud that Obama is making history.  All Americans should be pleased to see a live example that political leadership is open to all races and ethnic groups. Knowing that he is just like any other white presidential candidate,  the American people are going to evaluate him similarly to his predecessors who have run for office.</p>
<p>Many blacks and whites are going to vote for Barack Obama because they agree with his policies.  Race will be an insignificant factor.  This is ethical voting, selecting a candidate mainly on his or her policy positions is the epitome of American democracy.</p>
<p>Judging Obama as I would any other candidate, his inexperience and left-wing ideology fails to get my vote.</p>
<p><em>How can any African American vote for McCain over Obama?</em></p>
<p>McCain is getting my vote for three reasons; he is a moderate conservative, he has an outstanding record of leadership and he knows foreign policy.   As a moderate Republican, I appreciate that McCain knows how to work with Democrats to move legislation. He has a history of placing partisanship aside even when it cost him conservative votes.  His support for the United Nations to intervene in Darfur, proves his compassion.  I feel secure in knowing that he will create an exit strategy in Iraq that will avoid future national security risks.</p>
<p>Regarding crucial African American issues, I know that neither John McCain nor Barack Obama will make our issues a top priority.  Whoever wins office; the black community must be self-reliant and be rigorous in advocating the issues that matter to us most, as we have always done throughout our history.  It will be naïve and ridicule to contend that the skin color of the next president will definitely improve the black community without grassroots activism.  Furthermore, many of our challenges cannot be simply resolved by government intervention.</p>
<p>Better family unity, education and commitment to self-empowerment, are key to our progress, but these actions are out of the government’s scope.</p>
<p>Some Black Democrats assert that a vote against Obama means betraying our race. Several blindly believe that a President Obama will significantly improve black communities across the nation.</p>
<p>If this is true, then the many black Democrats who are already in public office can be blamed for the problems in our neighborhoods.  As one of Obama’s constituent in Illinois, I have yet to witness a sudden surge of blacks moving from the disadvantage areas of Chicago’s south and west sides to homes in the suburbs.</p>
<p>Can we fault our leaders for too few of us with college degrees and too many of  our children being raised without fathers?  Perhaps these politicians should be responsible for people having unprotected sex, and thus adding themselves to the increasing number of African Americans inflected with HIV?</p>
<p>As a black conservative, I overall support our leaders in the government and the community regardless of partisanship.  However, I disagree on the methods and ideas that can best address certain problems.</p>
<p>I am confident that one day the Republican Party will nominate a black presidential candidate that I can vote for because I agree with his or her policies rather than just skin color.  The GOP has generated some of the most commendable black leaders such as Martin Luther Kings Jr., Booker T. Washington, Colin Powell, Condoleezza Rice, Alan Keyes, J.C. Watts and Michael S. Steele.   If black Democrats choose not to vote for a black Republican presidential candidate in the future, I will not question their loyalty and support for our community.</p>
<blockquote><p>Tiffany Shorter is a blogger on <a href="http://hiphoprepublican.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Hip-Hop Republicans</a> and active international affairs activist.  Before joining Hip-Hop Republicans,she was a member of Republicans Abroad Belgium responsible for coordinating outreach events and political discussions.  She has come to New York after living in aboard in Belgium where she earned a Master&#8217;s degree in International Law from the Brussels School of International Studies.  Along with blogging for Hip-Hip Republicans she has recently launch her own blog <a href="http://wj360.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">World Journal 360o</a> featuring global business and political news.</p></blockquote>
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