It’s one thing to choose to be happy, it’s another thing to actually keep it up. I think I’ve made strides in term of overall happiness, but sometimes I get bummed, sad or angry. I try to not to stay in these states for very long. Sometimes it’s easy to snap out of it, sometimes I need to try other tactics.
The first way is with affirmations. If you’ve ever seen my room, you’ll notice two things. One, (to the untrained eye) it’s messy and two, it is almost covered in post-it notes. Whenever I hear something positive that resonates with me, I write it down and post it somewhere I’ll see it in my room. Most are congregated by my computer screens and the rest of are my huge bulletin board/headboard. They range from short and sweet (Choose to shine.) to long (success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing you will be successful) to reminders of my general awesomeness (You are f-bomb smart Eva – really, really helpful during finals period).
If I’m not in my room, I turn to music. On my ipod and iphone I have a “smile” playlist. Very handy for dealing with shenanigans on the road. These playlist hold a lot of “I’m so cool songs” a la Beyonce (except it actually contains very little Beyonce at all, but you get the gist). When I play these songs, I find that I start to strut down the street instead of dragging myself.
And then there are the big dogs: call to Mom or Dad (my biggest cheerleaders) or America’s Funniest Home Videos. If something really troubling happens, I just call my parents who will never fail to tell me 1. that I’ll be ok because 2. I can handle anything and 3. that they love me. I always knew my mom was really good for these phone calls, I recently learned my dad is also pretty great for these calls to. I’m sure you have someone that’s awesome at cheering you up and reminding you that you’re capable and awesome.
And America’s Funniest Home Videos – I literally cannot watch this show without dying. Ever since middle school, whenever I watch this show I get sucked in and laugh - and not just any laugh, that crazy laugh when no sound comes out. It is just so silly. So by the time I’m done with that show, it’s pretty hard to go back my funk. Lately I’ve been saving random episodes on my DVR so I always have one ready.
So that’s what in my happiness arsenal. What’s in yours?