Comments on: Extreme Date #1: LL http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/ There's nothing wrong with being sassy ... Thu, 29 Dec 2011 22:28:46 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Sasha http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4298 Sasha Mon, 13 Apr 2009 15:28:29 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4298 Thanks for the feedback everyone!! BeeK: none of the guys will know that I'm writing about them. I think if they knew they would try to overdo it on the dates and not be their true selves. Thanks for the feedback everyone!!

BeeK: none of the guys will know that I’m writing about them. I think if they knew they would try to overdo it on the dates and not be their true selves.

]]> By: BeeK http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4288 BeeK Fri, 10 Apr 2009 01:10:26 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4288 Sounds like a great 1st date! Kissing sounds like it was called for considering the chemistry between the two of you...good that you stopped there though. Bar hopping - cool date idea...nice to be able to see him in different atmospheres all in 1 night. P.S. Does he know you're blogging about him? Just curious:) Sounds like a great 1st date! Kissing sounds like it was called for considering the chemistry between the two of you…good that you stopped there though. Bar hopping – cool date idea…nice to be able to see him in different atmospheres all in 1 night.

P.S. Does he know you’re blogging about him? Just curious:)

]]> By: Mel http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4287 Mel Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:42:37 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4287 Looks like date #1 is a win! But you do have at least 8 other elgible bachelors, so don't get too hooked into the 1st. I don't have a problem with kissing on the 1st date; go with the flow. Sex on a 1st date isn't as good of an idea (exchange birthdays, middle names, something). It's good that you kept it light while bar hopping; know and adhere to your own limits. Are we getting an update on date #2 w/bachelor #1?? Looks like date #1 is a win! But you do have at least 8 other elgible bachelors, so don’t get too hooked into the 1st. I don’t have a problem with kissing on the 1st date; go with the flow. Sex on a 1st date isn’t as good of an idea (exchange birthdays, middle names, something). It’s good that you kept it light while bar hopping; know and adhere to your own limits. Are we getting an update on date #2 w/bachelor #1??

]]> By: Just-US http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4286 Just-US Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:28:39 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4286 I totally agree with K.I.M.! And remember, Sasha, you still have '7' more guys to go...so choose wisely who you get "loose" with. You can't have yourself out there like that! With that being said, I'm sure you will not have the same connection with every guy. Just use discretion...that's all. I totally agree with K.I.M.!

And remember, Sasha, you still have ’7′ more guys to go…so choose wisely who you get “loose” with. You can’t have yourself out there like that! With that being said, I’m sure you will not have the same connection with every guy. Just use discretion…that’s all.

]]> By: K.I.M. http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4285 K.I.M. Thu, 09 Apr 2009 08:23:00 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4285 Sounds like a fun first date. The bar hopping idea was cool. Gives you the alternative of cutting your losses if there is no connection, or keeping the good time going if you are enjoying your company. lol, not sure that would work in my big city because even though it's big, it's really small. There are no 'rules,' per se, but I can already see that your physical attraction to him could potentially cloud your common sense. I know one too many people who do the let their southern loins make decisions rather than their heart or their brain...and once their heart and brain catch up they're disappointed. Continue having fun and if you want a relationship...let your heart/brain lead, not your lady parts! Sounds like a fun first date. The bar hopping idea was cool. Gives you the alternative of cutting your losses if there is no connection, or keeping the good time going if you are enjoying your company. lol, not sure that would work in my big city because even though it’s big, it’s really small.

There are no ‘rules,’ per se, but I can already see that your physical attraction to him could potentially cloud your common sense. I know one too many people who do the let their southern loins make decisions rather than their heart or their brain…and once their heart and brain catch up they’re disappointed. Continue having fun and if you want a relationship…let your heart/brain lead, not your lady parts!

]]> By: Cinnamon http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4283 Cinnamon Thu, 09 Apr 2009 05:12:34 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4283 Kissing is cool and sex is too. When the mood is right, it's right. Besides, I slept with my dude the first night and we got married 2 months ago. Kissing is cool and sex is too. When the mood is right, it’s right. Besides, I slept with my dude the first night and we got married 2 months ago.

]]> By: Sasha http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4282 Sasha Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:15:15 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4282 @NerdwithSwag: It's rare that I get sloppy (my last sloppy episode was my birthday so I get a pass, right?). Plus I had to drive home so I kept it light and drank plenty of water. @Just-US: No regrets at all. I have heard from him...we went out again for dinner :-) @Dee: Nope not that either. But good guess @NerdwithSwag: It’s rare that I get sloppy (my last sloppy episode was my birthday so I get a pass, right?). Plus I had to drive home so I kept it light and drank plenty of water.

@Just-US: No regrets at all. I have heard from him…we went out again for dinner :-)

@Dee: Nope not that either. But good guess

]]> By: Dee http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4281 Dee Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:52:52 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4281 LL Cool J :-) LL Cool J :-)

]]> By: Just-US http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4280 Just-US Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:30:40 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4280 Sounds like you all connected very well. I wouldn't say it has been a "rule", so to speak, but generally, I've never kissed a guy on the first date. As for the bar hopping, at times, it's usually not a good idea to involve excessive amounts of alcohol because "things" might happen that wouldn't have necessarily happened had you been sober. But hey...as long as you don't regret it the next day I suppose. So...have you heard from him since the date? Sounds like you all connected very well.

I wouldn’t say it has been a “rule”, so to speak, but generally, I’ve never kissed a guy on the first date. As for the bar hopping, at times, it’s usually not a good idea to involve excessive amounts of alcohol because “things” might happen that wouldn’t have necessarily happened had you been sober. But hey…as long as you don’t regret it the next day I suppose.

So…have you heard from him since the date?

]]> By: Dee http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/2009/04/08/extreme-date-1-ll/comment-page-1/#comment-4279 Dee Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:30:31 +0000 http://sassywomenonline.com/blog/?p=466#comment-4279 Well, I think I know where the LL nickname came from...:-) Well, I think I know where the LL nickname came from…:-)

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