Hi SASSY folks! My name is, well, just call me Sasha, and I’m the newest member of Team Love (I even got my t-shirt!). I joined the team because I’m ready to put myself out there and find love or at least a decent person to kick it with. In order to do that I will be taking part in what I like to call “Extreme Dating.”
My mission is to go on 8 dates with 8 different men within 30 days, which is an average of about 2 a week. A lofty goal I know, but I think it’s attainable. So from April 1st until April 30th, I will be out in the city meeting people, flirting a little more, getting referrals from friends, and maybe even going out with people I wouldn’t normally be pulled to.
By the end of the 30 days I hope to have discovered more about what I like and don’t like in a man, to catch up on all the casual dating I didn’t do in my early 20s, and to just have a good time meeting new people.
A little about me: I’m 27, and I live in a large city somewhere in the US. Went to school got an edumacation and all and now I do the whole 40 hour work week thing. I’ve been described by friends as humorous, outgoing, and effervescent.
Now my love life…well, I haven’t been in a relationship since July 2007. Since then there has been an ebb and flow in my dating life. There are spurts of decent guys who have come around, but nothing has really developed. Then I have these periods (they seem to be really long periods) of where I get no play. I never really did the casual dating thing like most folks do in their early 20s. It was pretty much either a relationship or nothing at all. My last date was in January 2009.
I will be writing about my dates and experiences here on SASSY so stay tuned to hear all of the details!
Love is all we need (I think),
Sasha
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Sasha, how pleased are we- the collective single women reading this bologsite- that you have volunteered yourself for this dating experiment!!! I’m slightly nervous to see how one can date so steadily and not become jaded…. I’ll be reading and can’t wait to see what challenges and progress you detail!! oh, Don’t forget your mase…
I’m hoping you do well out there Sasha. You deserve to meet a nice guy.
Yay Sasha! I can’t wait to hear about these dates. Good luck!
Sasha good luck with the “extreme dating.” I have never really dated casually either so let me know how that works out for you. I look forwarding to reading about your experiences. Please remember to let someone know when you are going out with these men and your location…so if he turns out to be crazy someone can come find you…j/k but no I am serious!!!
Good luck, Sasha! I can’t wait to hear more about your experiences! As the Future Mrs said…please be careful!
Hey There,
I’m not sure If meeting on the internet is casual dating; but I’m in PJ’s and Bugs slippers, so I’d call it casual.
About referrals: I refer myself
Sorry If this “comment” is impolite; take it as a complement.
You seem like you’re worth it.
Have a Wonderful Time!
ejonah2002yahoocom
Please put Sasha in the subject for my filters
I think you’re idea is much better than dating one guy with 8 split personalities. That definitely wouldn’t be casual…
Wow…did I just get hollered at? This should make for an interesting story…let’s discuss…
I will definitely be looking forward to your posts. My dating future may rely heavily on your success with this experiment. LOL. Best of luck! Can’t wait to see what’s to come.